The kind of qualities of men that I think should have (Just my preference)

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So a friend of mine shared this video with me and out of boredom and laziness to do productive work I just took a look at it. I won't be a spoiler for you so please watch the video before continue reading this. :)

In this video, this woman mentioned the "qualities" a man has, and ALL of the qualities she mentioned I do not want or can't stand. No offense to some of you guys if one of your qualities are stated in this video.
This video gave me the idea to blog about a random post regarding the kind of man I want... :p

Bravery
Firstly the guy has to be brave! I can not stand a guy who can't stand up for himself and just follows everything his mum or girlfriend/wife says. The type that I really can't stand is when his girlfriend says "If you do this, or do that, don't do this, or don't do that, i'll break up with you". Seriously? Also imagine if you're out partying with friends, and this other guy tries to hit on you, your boyfriend does nothing but just stand there because he's afraid... Omg I would be so pissed. So yes bravery is important for me and it's what that attracts me.

Not Selfish
Hahaha to be honest I'm a pretty selfish person, so I definitely can not be with someone who is selfish as well, it just wont work and will lead to many arguments. So yeah I guess this is kinda important? But of course I still follow the give and take rule :). Another thing is that a selfless man really puts a smile on my face and gives me some kind of inner peace feeling. For example when his friend mistreated him, he would still give in and talk to his friend when his friend don't even know or realise he's in the wrong. I think this is one of the hardest thing to do. If someone did me wrong I don't know if i can just act like nothing happened.

Patience
This is a very important quality my man should have. I don't really know how to explain this but if a man has no patience, even a patient person like me (sometimes) will lose it. And patience is also a quality of a man that impresses me and puts a smile on my face. :)

Hardworking
Well he doesn't have to work 24/7 to earn big bucks for me to spend. I just admire a person who manages his time well and gets his work done. From what I've seen, hardworking is not about OT in the office, or studying extra hard few days before exams. Hardworking from my experience is when you're tight in cash, and still studying, but at the same time doing part time jobs to get some money to feed yourself... this kind of hardworking attitude is really rare now a days. So far I've met less than 5 people who are going through this kind of situation and still going strong not giving in to depression.

Fit/Healthy
Being super fit and healthy is not a MUST, but I would prefer. So far the guys I've liked in the past all play sports, so yeah one thing about me is that I can't get attracted to guys who are lazy, and I don't even know why until today. But I guess it's my preference that I have not discovered the reason to it. Plus, when he's fit and healthy it will influence me as well... :p


To conclude, I'm not really judging the girl in this video because to be honest, no one knows the true story except for the girl talking. But it's pretty disgusting what was mentioned in the video... so yeah... *shivers*. So yeah these are the qualities of men should have for me. :)


Please do not hate me for this post, i'm just sharing my preference and opinion, after all every women have different preferences and taste for their men. :)



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